Finding Home
When we decided to move from Oregon to West Michigan, I knew I'd miss the big things. Our friends, our favorite places, the routines we'd built over the years. I expected all of that.
What surprised me were the little things.
Knowing which grocery store I liked best. Having a favorite coffee shop. Driving somewhere without opening Google Maps. Running into familiar faces. Those ordinary parts of everyday life were what made Oregon feel like home, and I didn't realize how much I'd miss them until we started over somewhere new.
The move itself was a blur. There were boxes to unpack, paperwork to sign, and a toddler to keep entertained. It wasn't until we were settled that the emotions really caught up with me. I was excited to be here, but I also found myself grieving the life we'd left behind. It turns out you can be incredibly grateful for a new chapter while still missing the old one.
Our son adjusted much faster than I did. A few weeks after we moved, he cried on the way home from the store because he missed his room and his friends. I cried too, mostly because I was already feeling the same way. Then, almost as quickly as he was sad, he started making this place his own.
Watching him made me realize that home isn't something you stumble across one day.. It's something you build little by little, and that's exactly what we've been doing.
My husband and I have spent weekends exploring back roads, trying coffee shops, working on home projects and finding our footing together.
Starting over professionally happened at the same time. Getting my real estate license after moving across the country was exciting, but I'd be lying if I said it wasn't intimidating. I was brand new to the area, didn't have a local network, and had to build everything from scratch. What I found instead was a community of people who welcomed us, answered my questions, and reminded me that starting over doesn't have to mean starting alone.
That experience has shaped the way I think about real estate.
Buying a home is important, but building a life is what people are really looking for. They're wondering where they'll meet friends, where they'll spend Saturday mornings, where they'll celebrate birthdays, and where their kids will ask to ride their bikes after dinner. Those are the things that turn a house into home.
It's also why I started The West Michigan Edit.
Before we here, I spent so much time researching neighborhoods, schools, parks, restaurants, and local businesses because I wanted this place to feel familiar. Now I get to share those discoveries with other people. Beautiful homes are part of the story, but so are the hidden beaches, the local bookstores, the farmers markets, and the small businesses that make a community feel special.
If you're new to West Michigan, I hope this space helps you discover a few places you'll love. And if you've called this area home for years, I hope it reminds you why you love living here.
Because I've learned that home isn't a place you find all at once. It's something you create through ordinary days, familiar faces, and the little routines that slowly become your life. Looking back, I think that's what we were building all along. We just didn't realize it until it finally started to feel like home.